What All Men Would Want to Know : Secret to a Happy Marriage ;)

Okay!!!!! Here I am!!!! Writing almost after a month :) I know, I know. I am 1 lazy a##. But still, as usual I am bursting out to share this secret with you all!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!( that is in case anyone is reading ;) and in case you're not reading,that's OK :) )

Now coming back to our main topic of discussion. When someone says I am happily married! Why on Earth do we have to ask him " You're happy or married? " Why can't it be both!!!!!!!!!!! Today I will prove it to you that a person can be " Happily Married ".

Aim : To prove that one can make his wife happy. 100% success guaranteed :)

Location : Outside the Metro Station,Delhi (Top Secret location ;) )

Time : 8:00 A.M.

Materials used : My excellent power of observation ;)

Method :

1. As I was waiting for my bus, I decided to play a game. A game which involved all those cars in which there was a couple ( I am not bothered about the marital status of my subjects ;) Want to generalize my study :) ) My aim was to observe " IN HOW MANY CARS DID THE WOMAN HAVE A SMILE ON HER FACE WHEN SHE BID GOODBYE TO HER MAN " .
That is it. That is all I ever wanted to know. Pretty basic stuff,eh?

CASE 1: The first car which came was of an OLD MARRIED couple. I wasn't expecting the lady to smile. No offence but they both seemed a bit grouchy. The wife left. The husband left. It felt as if he had come to throw something out of his car . No goodbyes, no nothing.

CASE 2: The next car was that of a couple with a kid. Mother was too busy taking care of the baby. Husband drops them at the station and leaves. No goodbyes, no nothing.

CASE 3: The next car was that of a couple with a teenage girl. Mother and daughter were too busy in their conversation to even acknowledge the father. They left . No goodbyes, no nothing.

CASE 4 : Young couple. Wife comes out of the car . The Bollywood influenced husband longingly waits for the wife to turn . It's an Indian thing . PALAT ;) ( She loves you if she looks back at you :) ) I felt sad for him. He was blocking the traffic . No amount of honking made him move an inch from his place. He left when the woman had become out of sight.

OBSERVATION :

Above four cases discussed by me are true. They happened in front of me . I can vouch for them . Now the question is -

WHAT WENT WRONG??????

All 4 cases have only 1 solution .

When all these 4 women were leaving,I noticed that none of them had even an iota of a smile on their face. One may wish to defer and say " They may be simply unhappy on having to part with their husbands and go to work ". But I saw their faces . Lifeless!!! Like they were all robots!!!!!!!! And it hurt me. Because you don't know how difficult a day it might be for you, and if you are this upset in the morning itself then God help you my child,sigh!

Appreciation is all we want.Right? Whether its in the office from our bosses,in school from our teachers, at home from our elders. So why does it become so difficult for a man to appreciate his wife or lover or friend or companion.
 She gets up at the crack of dawn, makes food, wakes you up , gets ready ( I am the one who has to do just this and believe me its one hell of a job!!!!!!!! ;) I have a fashion parade in my house daily ;) I am just so indecisive ;) ). Isn't this enough already??? Then you both leave for work. She does so much and what does she get in return???? Zilch,zero :(

Now here comes the most important part of this write up

While parting ways just say the following things-

1. I DON'T KNOW HOW YOU DO IT BABY??? SERIOUSLY??? I JUST HAVE AN OFFICE TO HANDLE. BUT YOU HAVE TO HANDLE OUR HOUSE,YOUR OFFICE,OUR BABY( in case you have 1 or 2 or whatever ;) ) The aim behind this is to let her feel WANTED and NEEDED. Let her know how important she is to you. Even if you are mad at her. Just tell her that she has been a great wife or a lover or a friend or a partner. A woman is all these things in one. You just have to let her know what she means to you. Don't let her go angry to work . She doesn't deserve it . She does way too much for you. Tell her that you'd do anything to run away with her, anywhere. I know,I know. Who does this stuff. And that too daily.!!!! Am I out of my mind :@

But the truth is that this is the actual secret behind a successful relationship. Goodbyes are never meant to be sad. In fact a goodbye is supposed to fill you up with all anticipation and hope to see him/her again, hence the name GOOD-BYE :)
Never ever let her go when she is angry or you leave the house when you are angry.  She does it all for you . So that you notice her :) Praise her :) Encourage her :) Love her :) Is it too much to ask for???

Just appreciate her.

Appreciating her => She goes to work happy => She thinks about you during her journey => She talks about all the things you told her to her friends :) ( just to make them jealous that is ;) ) => She comes back home happy => She cooks a nice meal for you. And who knows you might just get lucky in the bedroom ;) Score ;)
Now on a very serious note. MAKE HER FEEL LOVED. COMPLIMENT HER EYES. TELL HER ALL THE THINGS WRITTEN IN CAPS ABOVE. And last but not the least, ask her to PALAT( turn back ;)) else tell her that you won't leave the spot till she turns back to face you and then proceeds. We all are huge DDLJ( DILWAALE DULHANIYA LE JAYENGE) fans you see ;)

RESULT
HAPPILY MARRIED LIFE :* <3 :* <3
hence proved ;)

STAY HAPPY, STAY BLESSED :)