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The Timing Wasn't Right. Was it really?

 I've heard this so many times. In movies, in plays, from my friends and even my mom - "The timing wasn't right, else it all would have worked out". Really? Timing? Time itself would just throw its hands in the air for being blamed so many times for something that it had nothing to do with.  If one person is more in love than the other and they break up because of this, what has time got to do with this. They say, in due course of time he will realise what he is missing and once he does, he will be back. I can feel Time simply smirking at me saying - Do whatever, I have nothing to do with this! And rightly so!  I have 0 control over my past and future. I do, however, have some control over my present. Present is a choice. An ongoing choice. I like to call it - my real time choice. Every second in my present is a conscious call that I make - to read, to watch Netflix, to text, to work, to love. Doesn't it work the same for you? So why blame time for someone's i...